I am so disgusted by his selfishness right now that I could scream. His son had an EEG done today. Not only did I have to hold my child down for 2 HOURS while he screamed and cried to the point of gagging, but they cemented the leads on his head down with a superglue substance that has his hair super glued to the electrodes. My son is only 18 months so he doesn't know how to move and keep the "box" that holds the wires and monitor with him, so when he moves, it pulls on his head/scalp and hair until he cries from the pain. EVERYTIME HE MOVES. He also has pulled so hard on it accidentally that he has pulled a chunk of his hair mixed with the glue out and screamed for 30 minutes on that one. He is pitiful and miserable and I wish so bad that I could just say forget it, and take this stuff off. It hurts my heart to see my baby boy in pain.
The kicker? He hasn't even asked how his son is doing. And when I point that out, and that I am pissed that he rambled on for 4 paragraphs about how his art class sucks and how hard it is instead of first asking how his son is, apparently I need to just simmer down because it's no big deal. No?
Well maybe had you been there to see how much it hurt him having his head cemeneted and how it hurt him, he would understand. But because your priority isn't your son, you weren't there. Again. So yeah, I guess to you, the person who only sees him to play for a while and bring him home, and you never go through the difficult mess that real parenting entails, yeah, to you, it's probably "no big deal"
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