I let go, you pull me back.

This picture(above) pretty much desribes exactly how I feel at the moment. I can't help but be flattered that he misses me, and yet, it's his OWN FAULT that he misses me. It's not mine! He just apparently has decided that is not only coming to pick Nathan up for his visitation, but is STAYING THE NIGHT. Um, NO. I tell him no, and he responds with "As I said, too bad. Be there tomm. Love ya. Kisses 10:29 PM"

Wait, seriously. You won't even take no for an answer. How in the hell should I handle this?!?! And WHY when I finally start letting go, do you ALWAYS have to try to pull me back into your emotional rollercoaster bullshit?